My name is Ruben Banks and online dating is my life.  For the past 8 years, I’ve run several dating websites and spent all day in front of a computer following the trends of what women are looking for online, and what turns them off.  That’s right, I was dating online before it was socially acceptable like it is now.  I have written several eBooks about how to attract the women you want online and ultimately date them.  My motto is: Use online dating as a vehicle to date her offline.  And that is why this blog is here, to help you succeed online and take her out.