Ruben Banks
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The Phenomenon of The Point System
24 Jan 2011This method is tried-and-true, and I have many members who implement this playful style into their online pickup: The Point System. Whether you’re trying to get a woman to qualify herself to you, or you’ve hit an awkward moment where she hasn’t responded, The Point System is a fun way to move the ball back [...]
I get emails everyday with a “thanks” here, a “you rock” there, and my favorite: “Ruben, it WORKED!”
It’s all part of the plan. Racking up the dates, boosting your confidence, keeping a healthy social schedule, fine-tuning your pickup craft, and so on. When you finally saw the light, and began with the fresh drive to [...]
Online Dating TIPS: The Almighty Poke Button
9 Jul 2010If you don’t have a Facebook yet, you’ve either been living under an abandoned RV or you need to get with it. Facebook is not a traditional online dating site, however, there are many many opportunities to turn it into one.
Once you’ve set up your profile in maximum attraction form and are ready to reach [...]
Dating Advice: Use Your Willpower and Score
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips| text game
5 Jul 2010Guys, I’ve had a lot of men writing for advice lately-one common theme I noticed: You’re making yourself too available and decreasing attraction. What do I mean?
We have all heard the expression people only want what they can’t have,” right? Well it’s the truth! When a girl responds to your texts or calls within twenty [...]
Dating Advice: Create Sexual Tension
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips
28 Jun 2010When it comes to getting laid (without paying for it!), no man has been successful without the use of sexual tension. You may not have realized how important it was at the time, but it was there alright. In this post I explain what sexual tension is, and how to achieve it with the hot [...]
Dating Advice: She’s Flirting BUT She’s in a Relationship?
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips| text game
25 Jun 2010Many men write in asking about this one. You want to date/fuck a woman who is in a relationship already-and she’s giving you the signs that she is interested…but in your mind she’s off limits right? Wrong.
It doesn’t matter if the one you want is in a relationship! If they are throwing it down, feel [...]
Dating Advice: Reel Her in with My Texts
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| text game
16 Jun 2010Women are addicted to their phones like men are to scratching themselves. It’s natural, it happens and they won’t apologize for it. So if you want to grab her attention sometime the best way is to send a witty text message-making her laugh and think of you. Tip: when she texts you back, wait 10 [...]
Online Dating TIPS: 4 Lies Men Tell Online
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips
14 Jun 2010Of course your intention is to get closer to the prize, but these 4 lies are actually pulling you farther and farther away.
1. “Open to Children…”
Right. And I’m open to dating the Travelocity gnome. A lot of men say that they are open to having kids because they think they will immediately turn away all [...]
Dating Advice: Try this Pick Up Tonight
In: Dating Advice| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips
4 Jun 2010I went out last night with a group of guys for my friend’s birthday. He is a ham and wanted to sing karaoke. I’ve been to karaoke bars before but this one happened to be packed with hot women watching the Lakers game. Nice. The game ends and the karaoke guys are setting up. The [...]
BALD – NO
Balding happens to 70% of men over 30, so realize now that you aren’t alone. As a fellow hair-challenged man I can tell you that the less hair you have, the more confidence you need to make up for it. Of course confidence cannot be bought like Rogaine or Propecia, which are a [...]
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