Ruben Banks
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I get emails everyday with a “thanks” here, a “you rock” there, and my favorite: “Ruben, it WORKED!”
It’s all part of the plan. Racking up the dates, boosting your confidence, keeping a healthy social schedule, fine-tuning your pickup craft, and so on. When you finally saw the light, and began with the fresh drive to [...]
Dating Advice: The 60-second Deal Breaker
In: Dating Advice
3 Sep 2010We’ve already established that a man’s gotta be a man. But upon meeting a woman for that first date, don’t assume a false idea that your first face-to-face impression won’t matter, just because you’ve already gotten to know each other via phone or online.
She already has an idea of how you look, and what [...]
Dating Advice: Help me with my One-itis
3 Aug 2010In my entire dating life, I have never felt so out of control and helpless as a year ago: I simply could not stop thinking about my ex, no matter what I tried. This painful lingering feeling is called “One-itis:” you are sold on the fact that this woman is your one true love, and [...]
Online Dating Tips: Your Headline
16 Jul 2010If you consider online dating essentially shopping for a date, then the headline is the product slogan. You have this online real estate to “sell yourself” so picking a clever headline is important. Every woman says she wants a man that makes her laugh so if you get her giggling right off the bat your [...]
Dating Advice: Approach Anxiety by Ruben
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| confidence| sex advice| sex tips
13 Jul 2010Guys, What is scarier in your mind: Jumping off a 20-story building or approaching this woman at a club?
I’m pretty sure you all agree that it doesn’t get scarier than approaching a gorgeous woman you noticed out somewhere. This is known as approach anxiety and is evident in 98% of all men. As a victim [...]
Online Dating TIPS: The Almighty Poke Button
9 Jul 2010If you don’t have a Facebook yet, you’ve either been living under an abandoned RV or you need to get with it. Facebook is not a traditional online dating site, however, there are many many opportunities to turn it into one.
Once you’ve set up your profile in maximum attraction form and are ready to reach [...]
Dating Advice: Use Your Willpower and Score
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips| text game
5 Jul 2010Guys, I’ve had a lot of men writing for advice lately-one common theme I noticed: You’re making yourself too available and decreasing attraction. What do I mean?
We have all heard the expression people only want what they can’t have,” right? Well it’s the truth! When a girl responds to your texts or calls within twenty [...]
If you’re like me, sometimes you get caught up worrying how attractive your profile is and you forget we need to judge these ladies too. When I take a woman out, I always go back to her profile and see if she painted an accurate picture. This process has allowed me to pick up on [...]
Dating Advice: Create Sexual Tension
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips
28 Jun 2010When it comes to getting laid (without paying for it!), no man has been successful without the use of sexual tension. You may not have realized how important it was at the time, but it was there alright. In this post I explain what sexual tension is, and how to achieve it with the hot [...]
Dating Advice: She’s Flirting BUT She’s in a Relationship?
In: Dating Advice| Online Dating| Phone Game| approaching| confidence| sex advice| sex tips| text game
25 Jun 2010Many men write in asking about this one. You want to date/fuck a woman who is in a relationship already-and she’s giving you the signs that she is interested…but in your mind she’s off limits right? Wrong.
It doesn’t matter if the one you want is in a relationship! If they are throwing it down, feel [...]
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