Before you start any sort of online relationship, the first step is to obviously “befriend” the hottie on whatever social networking site you are member of.  Can you send a friend request to a complete stranger?  Sure you can!  However, you’ve got to do it right.  Similar to approaching a stranger at a bar, you simply can’t appear like a creep or a douchebag.

Your Facebook friends list should contain both “filler” women, and “women of interest.”  If you go on to add a “woman of interest,” and you have very few friends on your list, you might get rejected.  There are a lot of women out there who will just add you for the hell of it, usually the model types who are looking for more of a make-shift fan base than a connection.  Add them, the numbers don’t hurt.  Add “normal” girls as well — go through your buddies’ friends lists and send an add request to every decent (6s and 7s are OK) female that you also happen to know, but are not necessarily interested in.  Adding DJs or promoters of various clubs are also a good idea.  Not only do they add everyone, they will also become an instant “mutual friend” with thousands of hot women.

Now that you’ve adequately supplied your profile with enough filler women, you can get started on your quest for women whom you will actually WANT to make a connection with.  Go back to your buddies’ friends lists… you can find them in there.

You may now begin your adding spree.  On Facebook, there is a space to include an optional message.  Do not leave this blank with a complete stranger, as that will minimize your chance of her adding you.

Pick any subject of interest off of her profile.  Do you mutually like skydiving?  Add her and include “Skydiving = craziest rush ever.”  Or is Guns N’ Roses a common interest?  Include “GNR! A woman that knows what GOOD music is.  Wow.”

The short message will increase her comfort level, as you are tapping into one of her interests.