Dating Advice for Men: On and OFFline
I get emails everyday with a “thanks” here, a “you rock” there, and my favorite: “Ruben, it WORKED!”
It’s all part of the plan. Racking up the dates, boosting your confidence, keeping a healthy social schedule, fine-tuning your pickup craft, and so on. When you finally saw the light, and began with the fresh drive to [...]
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3 Sep 2010We’ve already established that a man’s gotta be a man. But upon meeting a woman for that first date, don’t assume a false idea that your first face-to-face impression won’t matter, just because you’ve already gotten to know each other via phone or online.
She already has an idea of how you look, and what [...]
If you consider online dating essentially shopping for a date, then the headline is the product slogan. You have this online real estate to “sell yourself” so picking a clever headline is important. Every woman says she wants a man that makes her laugh so if you get her giggling right off the bat your [...]
If you don’t have a Facebook yet, you’ve either been living under an abandoned RV or you need to get with it. Facebook is not a traditional online dating site, however, there are many many opportunities to turn it into one.
Once you’ve set up your profile in maximum attraction form and are ready to reach [...]
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5 Jul 2010Guys, I’ve had a lot of men writing for advice lately-one common theme I noticed: You’re making yourself too available and decreasing attraction. What do I mean?
We have all heard the expression people only want what they can’t have,” right? Well it’s the truth! When a girl responds to your texts or calls within twenty [...]
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4 Jun 2010I went out last night with a group of guys for my friend’s birthday. He is a ham and wanted to sing karaoke. I’ve been to karaoke bars before but this one happened to be packed with hot women watching the Lakers game. Nice. The game ends and the karaoke guys are setting up. The [...]
You’ve probably noticed that a lot of women fill their online dating profiles with disclaimer after disclaimer of what they DON’T want…usually involving laziness and Ed Hardy. But there are even bigger turn-offs. No matter how nervous you get don’t let yourself slip into one of these types.
1. The Agro-Meathead
Even if someone shoves you or [...]