Posts Tagged ‘confidence

I get emails everyday with a “thanks” here, a “you rock” there, and my favorite: “Ruben, it WORKED!”
It’s all part of the plan.  Racking up the dates, boosting your confidence, keeping a healthy social schedule, fine-tuning your pickup craft, and so on.  When you finally saw the light, and began with the fresh drive to [...]

If you consider online dating essentially shopping for a date, then the headline is the product slogan.  You have this online real estate to “sell yourself” so picking a clever headline is important.  Every woman says she wants a man that makes her laugh so if you get her giggling right off the bat your [...]

If you don’t have a Facebook yet, you’ve either been living under an abandoned RV or you need to get with it.  Facebook is not a traditional online dating site, however, there are many many opportunities to turn it into one.
Once you’ve set up your profile in maximum attraction form and are ready to reach [...]

Guys, I’ve had a lot of men writing for advice lately-one common theme I noticed:  You’re making yourself too available and decreasing attraction.  What do I mean?
We have all heard the expression people only want what they can’t have,” right?  Well it’s the truth!  When a girl responds to your texts or calls within twenty [...]

If you’re like me, sometimes you get caught up worrying how attractive your profile is and you forget we need to judge these ladies too.  When I take a woman out, I always go back to her profile and see if she painted an accurate picture.  This process has allowed me to pick up on [...]

When it comes to getting laid (without paying for it!), no man has been successful without the use of sexual tension.  You may not have realized how important it was at the time, but it was there alright.  In this post I explain what sexual tension is, and how to achieve it with the hot [...]

Many men write in asking about this one.  You want to date/fuck a woman who is in a relationship already-and she’s giving you the signs that she is interested…but in your mind she’s off limits right?  Wrong.
It doesn’t matter if the one you want is in a relationship!  If they are throwing it down, feel [...]

Women are addicted to their phones like men are to scratching themselves.  It’s natural, it happens and they won’t apologize for it.  So if you want to grab her attention sometime the best way is to send a witty text message-making her laugh and think of you.  Tip: when she texts you back, wait 10 [...]

I went out last night with a group of guys for my friend’s birthday.  He is a ham and wanted to sing karaoke.  I’ve been to karaoke bars before but this one happened to be packed with hot women watching the Lakers game.  Nice.  The game ends and the karaoke guys are setting up.  The [...]

BALD – NO
Balding happens to 70% of men over 30, so realize now that you aren’t alone.  As a fellow hair-challenged man I can tell you that the less hair you have, the more confidence you need to make up for it.  Of course confidence cannot be bought like Rogaine or Propecia, which are a [...]


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